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Many people choose cremation for a
variety of other reasons. The simplicity and
dignity of cremation, environmental
concerns, economical reasons, and the
flexibility cremation affords in ceremony
planning and final disposition all add to
its growing popularity |
What is Cremation?
The practice of cremation dates back to
ancient times. The number of people in the
United States and Canada selecting cremation as the
form of final disposition has risen significantly
during the past few years.
Since you're thinking about cremation, you may want to
know more about the process and the many services
available to you. It is simply the process of
reducing the body to bone fragments through the
application of intense heat. Over the period
of two to three hours the body is transformed
into a state of small skeletal fragments, not fine
ash as some people believe. The cremated
remains of an average adult weigh from three to
seven pounds. They are generally placed in a
small cardboard box or other temporary container by
the crematory until the decision as to final
disposition of the cremated remains is decided.
Can there be Services or Ceremonies when
Cremation is chosen?
Certainly, Cremation does not limit your
choices, but increases the options available to you.
It in no way eliminates a funeral. Optional
services may precede or follow the actual cremation.
Prior to the cremation there may be a visitation
and/or funeral ceremony with the casketed body
present. If a ceremony or service is conducted
following cremation, the receptacle containing the
cremated remains may take a place of prominence.
The receptacle is most commonly an urn, which is
taken to its final resting place following this
ceremony.
Regardless of the order of events, it is for the
benefit of the living that arrangements for a
ceremony are made.
Viewing the body of the deceased can help bereaved
persons begin to overcome grief by more readily
accepting the fact that a death has occurred.
Funeral ceremonies also have value in offering
family and friends an opportunity to honor their
loved one.
A ceremony may be individualized to reflect a
specific interest or hobby of the deceased. It
may highlight one's occupation or ethnic background
and therefore, hold special meaning for those
present.
The funeral ceremony is not unlike other ceremonies
that distinguish our lives. Baptisms,
graduations, weddings and such all serve to
recognize a significant event in a person's life.
The funeral ceremony likewise recognizes the final
event in a person's life and offers loved ones a
chance to say a last goodbye.
What choices are
available for Final Disposition of Cremated Remains?
The decision regarding final disposition of cremated
remains is usually influenced by the type of
memorialization desired. Just as ceremonies
offer value to the living, so does establishing a
permanent memorial. It serves as a focal point
for the remembrance of a loved one and can help in
overcoming grief.
Usually cremated remain are placed in some type
of receptacle or memorial urn before being committed
to a final resting place. The urn can be
buried in a family plot or urn garden, where a
marker or headstone may be used to mark the site.
Sometimes the urn is kept in the home. The urn
can also be placed in a memorial niche at a
cemetery, where it may be viewed through a
protective glass or sealed behind a memorial plaque.
Some cemeteries have special gardens where
cremated remains may be scattered. In areas
where it is permitted by law, cremated remains may
be scattered over land or water. However, this
decision should be carefully considered.
Although the act of scattering over land or water
may have some romantic appeal, it is an irreversible
decision. If no permanent memorial site
is established, survivors may later experience
regret, feeling that the bond is forever broken.
The emotional value of establishing a permanent
memorial site is worthy of consideration. It
might also be possible to plant a tree or flowers in
a significant place to serve as a memorial to the
loved one who died.
What costs are involved?
Costs vary somewhat from region to region and
according to the type of services that are used.
Funeral services are like anything else; the more
elaborate the arrangement, the more they will cost.
They can range from several hundred to several
thousand dollars.
Other factors affecting the cost include the type of
service or ceremony conducted, the choice of
cremation casket or container, the selection of a
memorial urn and the form of memorialization.
Most crematories require a closed container to
protect the health of operators and for the dignity
of the deceased. There are many cremation
caskets and containers from which to choose. A
popular choice is a hardwood casket, suitable for
cremation and for ceremonies prior to the cremation.
In some areas, where accepted by the crematory,
metal caskets are chosen as well. In addition
to fine hardwood and metal caskets, minimum
containers made of cardboard or particle board are
also available. Cremation caskets and
container costs will vary according to the materials
used and designs selected. Likewise, memorial
urns will vary in cost. Urns are made from a
variety of materials including bronze and various
species of woods. Occasionally other materials
are used, such as ceramic.
All aspects of funeral arrangements are a
combination of personal preference and financial
circumstances. At Sawyer-Fuller Funeral Home
our caring staff can provide detailed information on
all of the available options along with specific
costs for each. We can also explain legal
requirements and be sure all the proper forms are
completed.
Please
feel free to
contact us
at any time.
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